12-year-old Saira Banu dreamed of marrying Dilip Kumar, 34: ‘Out of love, not duress’
Saira Banu was 22 when she married 44-year-old Dilip Kumar, and she was ready to make any sacrifices needed to keep the marriage afloat. She faced 'resentment' from his sisters and would sometimes return to her parents' home when she had to get ready for early morning sho…
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Saira Banu, who married Dilip Kumar at the age of 22, has spoken about her childhood dream of marrying the actor when she was just 12 years old. Despite facing challenges in their marriage, including Dilip's second marriage, Saira chose to stand by him.
Saira Banu was a young girl who fell in love with a famous actor named Dilip Kumar when she was just 12 years old. She married him when she was 22, and they were together for 55 years. Despite some challenges in their marriage, Saira chose to stand by Dilip and take care of him.
Analysis
A Childhood Dream Takes Shape
Saira Banu's fascination with Dilip Kumar began when she was just 12 years old. She met him on the set of Mughal-E-Azam, and even though she was just a teenager, she had already fallen in love with him. This was a childish dream of a young girl who hadn't experienced the world, but it persisted even as she grew older.
A Marriage of Convenience?
Saira made her debut in the movies in 1961 with the superhit film Junglee. Even though she was the daughter of a famous film actor, Naseem Banu, being a star in the movies wasn't her childhood dream. But when she met Dilip Kumar as a 12-year-old, on the set of Mughal-E-Azam, the dream persisted and she actually believed that she had fallen in love with him. 'While still a teenager, I wanted to be his wife,' she once told Subhash K Jha in an interview.
A Marriage of 55 Years
Saira was 22 when she married a 44-year-old Dilip Kumar and stuck by him despite familial tension and his second marriage. She faced 'resentment' from his sisters and would sometimes return to her parents' home when she had to get ready for early morning shoots. But through it all, she never complained to her husband, even after she fell ill because of the 'emotional stress' that was being inflicted on her. A few years later, Saira and Dilip lost a baby in the eighth month of pregnancy. Years later, when she was asked about not having children, she said, 'I don't miss having a child because saab is like a child at heart.'
Key points
- Saira Banu was 22 when she married 44-year-old Dilip Kumar.
- She faced 'resentment' from his sisters and would sometimes return to her parents' home when she had to get ready for early morning shoots.
- Saira and Dilip lost a baby in the eighth month of pregnancy.
- Saira chose to stand by Dilip and take care of him despite the challenges they faced in their marriage.
The story of Saira Banu and Dilip Kumar's 55-year-long marriage is a testament to the power of love and commitment. Their relationship shows that even in the face of challenges, couples can work through their issues and come out stronger on the other side.
The challenges that Saira and Dilip faced in their marriage, including Dilip's second marriage, could have been a source of tension and conflict. However, Saira's decision to stand by Dilip and take care of him shows that even in difficult situations, love and commitment can be a powerful force.


