As online dating goes into ‘salvage mode’, can AI solve all its problems?
Bumble has abandoned its proposition that women make the first move, and is about to ditch the swipe. The company says it is responding to changing user behaviour and wants to encourage more meaningful connections.
Intelligence analysis by Llama

Bumble is reworking its swipe-and-match model and introducing artificial intelligence to improve user connections. The company is facing declining revenue and a cultural backlash against AI in intimate lives.
Dating apps are trying to use artificial intelligence to make it easier for people to find love. However, some people are worried that this will make the experience worse, not better. They think that AI might make it harder for people to connect with each other and that the apps might be more interested in making money than in helping people find love.
Analysis
Bumble's Salvage Mode
Bumble was created to fix what many saw as Tinder's chaotic and aggressive hookup culture by shifting the power dynamic entirely to women. Now it is dismantling those features. The company says it is responding to changing user behaviour and wants to encourage more meaningful connections. However, this move can be seen as a sign of desperation, as the company faces declining revenue and a cultural backlash against AI in intimate lives.
The Rise of AI in Dating Apps
Across the dating-app industry, the swipe-and-match model that transformed how people met is being quietly reworked while companies race to put artificial intelligence at the centre of whatever comes next. Grindr is transitioning into an 'AI-first' platform, Tinder is testing Chemistry, an AI-powered system intended to reduce 'swipe fatigue', and Bumble has been developing an AI matchmaking assistant called Bee. Other startups are dispensing with swiping altogether, opting for AI-driven interviews to find similarities with potential partners.
The Concerns Surrounding AI in Dating
Adam Peacock, a researcher of technology and intimacy, thinks the issue is that the industry is misreading what people are objecting to. There's a kind of emerging cultural backlash against allowing AI into our intimate lives as well as the additional concern that someone you're talking to on these apps, is actually filtering the whole conversation through an AI concierge. Peacock says gen Z in particular are concerned as to whether dating apps are even being designed to make good connections between users but are, instead, opaquely tweaked to monetise the time users spend on the site.
The Future of Dating Apps
Elsa Kugelberg, a philosopher who researches gender and relationships, says online dating has become too embedded in modern life to fail. However, the first generation of dating apps may be reaching its end. Peacock thinks the apps may evolve into something broader: 'More of a social media, lifestyle product than a dedicated dating app.' But the question is whether any iteration of dating app will make the experience better, or whether the extra layers of AI will simply function as a temporary facade on an exhausted model.
Key points
- Bumble has abandoned its proposition that women make the first move and is about to ditch the swipe.
- The company is facing declining revenue and a cultural backlash against AI in intimate lives.
- The online dating industry is shifting towards AI-powered solutions, but experts question whether this will improve user experiences or simply mask existing problems.
- Dating apps may evolve into something broader, such as a social media or lifestyle product, but the question is whether this will make the experience better or worse.
If the dating app industry can find a way to use AI that truly helps people connect with each other, it could lead to more meaningful relationships and a better experience for users. However, this will require a shift in focus from making money to helping people find love.
The use of AI in dating apps could lead to a further decline in user engagement and a loss of trust in the industry. If the apps are not designed with the user's best interests in mind, but rather with the goal of making money, it could have serious consequences for the industry and for people's relationships.



